Good dayI am in serious need of advice please.Was divorced just over 2 years ago. She wanted the div…

Good day

I am in serious need of advice please.

Was divorced just over 2 years ago. She wanted the divorce and I convinced her to try again. The plan was then to go ahead with the divorce and start over. I made everything very easy to get the divorce done. Even her attourney said he cannot believe haw easy it is.

So basically I end up still paying for everything as normal. Only the support became extra. This amount is very high but was told at that time by my ex not to worry because we know what we are doing. Then the divorce was settled and she said no, she is not doing it and I must go. So I was left for a sucker. 

Now she knows excactly I cannot pay the full amout of support, it is impossible. So she agreed verbally that I pay at least the childrens share. She does not worry about her share, which I have been doing or trying to do their full amount.

Few weeks ago she phoned again about the support. I asked her to give me at least 2 months as I am sorting out financial issues to be able to give more. Now I was summonsed by a court letter that I must give all the outstanding money and sheriff of the court was at my place to look at property to take to make up the money. Only item that can be is my car. If I dont have a car, I cannot get to work to get paid. All my things on my name is in the house where she is staying.

So please help, I need advice on what to do with this.

PLEASE!!!!

Regards

Morne Hanekom

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My wife asked for a seperation, and send me an email stating she wants it en told me she wants me to…

My wife asked for a seperation, and send me an email stating she wants it en told me she wants me to move out of the house and take the furniture i need, by they way she talks she have been in another relationship for over 2 years, there might be a posibility that the children isnt mine as well because she has been unfaithful a couple of times before, please feel free to phone me on 060 885 5908, i am also in posesion of her hand writen copy of her game plan that she wanted to do and how she wanted to play on my feelings untill i break.please let me know

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Good dayI’m going through a divorce, the husband has started the papaerwork but nothing has been con…

Good day

I’m going through a divorce, the husband has started the papaerwork but nothing has been confirmed, no court dates nothing. 

I have a car that i drive that is on his name he has stopped payng for it since we are separated and he now says the bank wants the car back even though I offered to pay for the arrears, he is refusing saying the car is a liabitility to him and we would rather send it back to the bank.

The are other 2 cars that are in his possession that were purchased during the marraige,  now what are my righs at the spouse as i cannot at the moment buy myself a vehicle as I just started employment where I work and I’m still a temp.

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