Husband refuse to settle dept even if he is in a very good work in Bahrain, refuse to come back to SA to sort out the judgement against our name (married In COP), went ahead bought house, business etc in Philippine, but do not finalized and settle judgement in SA. Threaten me to not pay me maintenance or surviving money, yes he is sole breadwinner for 31 years married life. FNB, Nedbank and Absa judgments. According to him he does not have money to settle the sequestration to benefit the creditors. His salary is plus minus R120 000 per month, Can I sent letters out to the banks, giving his info out as I do not have money for an attorney to take my case.